To My New NCCF Family House Members (10)



Beloved Jesus Corper,

Gracious greetings to you!

There is an apostolic remark that well summarizes the intent of my writings to you, ‘For me to the same things to you, it is not tedious, but for you it is safe’. Yes, I do not consider it laborious to pen down these things; they are however my contribution to your success in youthful service particularly in NCCF, and generally in the NYSC scheme.

Wherever there are people, there is bound to exist laws, not for their destruction, but on the contrary, for their edification. So laws make us responsible and accountable to one another; and if one is really committed to them, they help him to develop and evolve soundly over time.

Now, I want to be specific about two of these laws. Of course, there are many of them and they differ across various states; however, some are generally applicable and are enshrined in our constitution. One of the general laws is that which pertains to language: it is stated that apart from English and the local language of the people among whom you dwell, no other language is to be spoken within the family house.

That law underscores the power of language to bind or break relationships. When a language alien to one’s understanding is spoken around him, he feels out of place, and becomes nervous altogether. Such breeds some form of fear and fury within, whether the individual is conscious of it or not.

On the other hand, English language is assumed to be common to all, as every member of NCCF is a graduate. And if one is not well-groomed in the Anglophonic dialect, his association with intellectuals who interact regularly with the tongue should brush him up. The use of a common language for communication binds us together.

Also, the allowance of the local language in the family house is to help you learn it so that you can interact better with the local people who you would meet whether in the market or any part of the area. Moreover, it gives you a better knowledge of your nation, hence, meeting one of the goals of the NYSC.

I do not mean to insinuate that the essence of this law cannot be logically evaded. However, I mean to say that if you abide by it in all sincerity, it will make you better.

It is on this note that I would like to add that the bottom line is to ensure you keep the family healthy by ensuring that no member feels out of place; and you also try to help one another to communicate well both in English and the local language dominant in your community.

Besides, the rule does not completely kick against your tribal language in such a way that makes you forget it altogether. You are allowed to communicate in your own language when you are on calls and even when you outside the family house. Your language keeps you in tune with your biological family, blood relations, etc. and it is good for you to preserve it thereof.

Another highly regarded law is that which pertains to morning and evening devotions daily. Every member is expected to be in attendance. This is profitable for corporate fellowship; also, it helps good sleepers cultivate the all-important habit of early-rising.

In addition, it provides a platform for individuals to discover and develop their potentials as they take up core spiritual responsibilities. Some people might never get a platform to lead a Bible Study discussion in the family house except during devotions; the commendations they get afterwards will encourage them to go further.

The pitiable fact is that, for some people, corporate devotion displaces and even replaces their personal devotion altogether. This is not good. It is needless to argue about which is better, whether personal or corporate devotion, because both feed each other necessarily and what matters most is that they both help your relationship with God to grow. But to him who is contentious, I offer the messianic advice: this you ought to have done, without leaving the other undone.

Partake in corporate devotions and it will be a regular channel to tap spiritual resources, especially when you are overwhelmed by circumstances around you.

Always remember that it pays to serve Jesus.

Reach me if you have any questions and feel free to share this epistle.

Warm regards,
Bright Ukwenga,
2015/2016 General Secretary,
NCCF Bauchi

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